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Can anyone help identifying a novel?

There's a #scifi novel I read long ago, that I had figured must be Anne McCaffrey's 'Decision at Doona' - but now I'm reading that one it's apparent it's not.

It had humans arriving at a planet inhabited by big humanoid cats, like Doona does. But in this one, the female cats live in town & the males live alone in the woods except once a year, when the females go into heat & go out to meet a man, bringing gifts of industry to trade for pelts & such.

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This one's cat people are less studiously polite than McCaffrey's cat people, passing amusing judgement on human society.

IIRC it also had a description of the human spaceship as like a big cigar of rocket fuel with a little habitable pod in the middle, of which the back end is burnt down to nothing during the acceleration phase of the journey, then the front end is burnt down during the deceleration.